Become an escort in Munich: opera nights, lake weekends and clients who return

Munich · 02 · Evenings and guests

What an evening in Munich can look like

The Thursday at the end of June he asked for back in May, right after his tickets for the Opera Festival arrived. Your contact has confirmed it all, the lobby of the Bayerischer Hof at six, the fee and the evening until about one. He comes from Stuttgart and is looking forward to a night without business talk. You walk across to the Nationaltheater together, where the steps fill with dark suits and long dresses. In the interval he tells you why he is seeing this production for the third time, and you need not know Wagner for that.

After the performance you eat late, at a table he booked along with the tickets. Then it is only the few steps back to the Bayerischer Hof, where you stay for a few hours. In between, a quick "all good" goes to your contact. Around one a taxi takes you across the Isar to Haidhausen, the city almost empty at that hour, and at home you type "arrived". Opera, a late supper, a few hours at the hotel: Munich makes no big thing of such an evening, and that is exactly what makes it so pleasant.

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Where your evenings take place

Munich is a city of short distances, and your guests stay between Promenadeplatz and Maximilianstraße.

Opera at the Nationaltheater, festival at the Prinzregententheater

The Bavarian State Opera plays on Max-Joseph-Platz, and during the Opera Festival from late June to late July also at the Prinzregententheater in Bogenhausen. For the Nationaltheater your dress may be long, for a concert a sheath dress will do, and a quick question beforehand puts you right. The opera itself you need not know; most guests enjoy telling you about it in the interval.

Dinner between Promenadeplatz and Schwabing

Is the guest staying at the Vier Jahreszeiten Kempinski on Maximilianstraße, at the Mandarin Oriental by the Platzl or at the Rosewood? Then you meet in the lobby. The Charles by the Old Botanical Garden is quieter. Dinner is at Tantris in Schwabing or at JAN near Königsplatz. If the evening is not over yet, you sit at the bar at Schumann's by the Hofgarten before heading to his hotel.

Bogenhausen and Haidhausen, when it should be quieter

East of the Isar, around the Friedensengel, lie villas and restaurants where people know one another, the Käfer-Schänke among them. Behind it begins Haidhausen with its small wine bars, lovely for a second or third meeting.

Tegernsee and Lake Starnberg

Because the lakes are so near, a Munich evening easily grows into a whole weekend, with a boat in summer and an open fire and snow in winter. On the Tegernsee you might then stay at the Seehotel Überfahrt in Rottach-Egern. Hotel, length and the way back you know before you say yes.

Regulars who ask for you again

Many guests in Munich would rather book a woman they already know. The rules stay the same: every enquiry runs through us, and even the tenth time his money is there beforehand. If he suggests a meeting without us, a friendly no will do.

Munich · 04 · Working with us

How you are protected in Munich

Munich guests plan far ahead, and your safety has just as much lead time. No enquiry reaches you until the guest has passed our KYC check, and his prepayment is held on an intermediary account as a pass-through item until the date. If it has not arrived in full, the date does not take place.

If an enquiry does come for the same evening, your contact simply asks whether you have time. She has told you meeting place, length and fee beforehand, and she has negotiated the price. You never have to explain whether you accept a date or not. During the evening you drop her a line when you stand in the lobby and when you change venue after the opera. If your code word comes up in conversation, she knows without another word that you want to end the evening. How you get home is sorted beforehand, even when the Nationaltheater only lets out at eleven. Where your limits lie is yours alone to decide.

You pay us nothing in advance, nobody expects a set number of dates from you, and we transfer your fee once the date is over, with an invoice. The details are under how we work.

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Munich · 06 · Pay

What you earn in Munich

Munich evenings are planned long ahead and paid well: from €1,000 in fees, with opera and dinner plus a few hours at the hotel coming to €3,000, for example. A longer evening with concert, dinner and a last drink by the Hofgarten lies at €3,000 to €4,500, a weekend at the lake starts at €6,000 and can reach €15,000. Ten days of travel bring €30,000 to €40,000, and every one of these sums is the guest's fee. Our commission and your taxes come off that. The level of the commission is a topic for the call after your application, then for the contract.

In August, when opera and fairs pause and half of Munich is at Lake Garda, it goes quiet; the autumn with Wiesn, Expo Real and Advent is full. For many women it adds up to two to four evenings a month, a few do more, and regulars even out the quiet months a little. You can try your own figures in our guide on how much an escort earns. They are examples, not a promise. The booking types and what each pays are covered in escort jobs in Germany.

Munich · 07 · Discretion

Discretion in Munich

What if someone recognises you? In Munich, people with money and influence run into each other surprisingly often. A reception in the Residenz, the golf club, the same box at the Wiesn. Family firms, law practices and clinics are often tied together over generations, and your guests want as little as you do for anyone to hear of your evenings.

On the first call you name the districts, industries and circles no enquiry should come from. Guests know you by a stage name, in public your face is never on show, and we look at your ID only once, for the check. For a reception where he is bound to meet someone, you agree beforehand on a simple answer to how you know each other.

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What Munich guests expect of you

What do Munich guests expect of you? Less than you think. In Munich one would rather be five minutes early than one minute late. Whoever is already in the foyer of the Nationaltheater when he arrives has begun well. Allow time for the way there. At six the Mittlerer Ring stands still. People dress expensively here but quietly: cashmere and loden instead of logos, little jewellery. On the Tegernsee a knitted coat beats an evening gown, and you need a dirndl only if you fancy the Wiesn. Curiosity and listening count for more than expertise in opera or wine. German is always enough. With fair visitors an evening can be in English. You need no experience, though you must be 21, and everything else is under the requirements to become an escort.

If German is not your first language

Munich is full of people who came for a job, a university place or a partner's posting, and nobody is surprised by an accent. Fair visitors and international executives often prefer English anyway. Munich's long-standing regulars feel most at home in German, so a little German brings you more evenings over time.

Munich · 09 · Where to live

Living in Munich, or along the railway line

Do you have to live in Munich? No, many women value exactly that distance, because their everyday life stays in Augsburg, Ingolstadt or Rosenheim and they come into the city by train. Salzburg works as well, only then you live in Austria, and where you register is something we sort out together before your first evening. A travel allowance from the guest covers the way there and back, and after a long opera you need not watch for the last regional train.

Guests who land on the Erdinger Moos

Munich is a hub, so some guests come straight from an overseas flight to dinner and fly on in the morning. The bigger trips begin here too, to Vienna, Milan or London, and the guest always pays flights, hotel and travel.

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The Wiesn: what it means for you

From mid-September to the first Sunday in October, Munich is full of guests who would otherwise never be here. Many of these evenings are arranged back in the summer, because tents and hotels are booked out long before. Tell us in August whether you want evenings in Wiesn time, and we plan with you. Keeping those weeks free is just as fine.

A beer tent, though, is about as public as Munich gets, and in the well-known boxes people like to take photos. Many Wiesn evenings therefore happen far from the bustle. Whether you go into a tent with a guest at all, you decide before you agree. You need not own a dirndl, and you drink alcohol only if you feel like it. Taxis are scarce on those nights. The way home is fixed beforehand.

Munich · 11 · Trade fairs

Fairs in Riem, evenings in town

The fairground lies out in Riem, yet its visitors spend their evenings in the centre, where most of them stay. Guests from Asia, America or Scandinavia want above all a quiet dinner after ten hours in a hall, often in English. Which months fill up changes from year to year. Only Expo Real is always there. Fair visitors mostly book one or two evenings, and some come back for the next fair and ask for you.

Munich · 12 · Applying

Four steps to your first evening in Munich

1. The form, one minute. You need neither photos nor a decision for it, only a minute, in German or English.
2. A reply within 24 hours. Someone from the team writes back and proposes a time to talk.
3. Then the phone call, 20 to 40 minutes. What counts in Munich comes up: whether you commute from Augsburg or Rosenheim, which circles you rule out and whether Wiesn time is an option for you. You may ask anything and need not settle anything yet.
4. A free photo shoot. The pictures are yours. Whether we work together, you decide afterwards, in peace, and only then does the first enquiry come.

Which details and photos are really needed is explained in our guide to applying to an escort agency.

Nobody expects you to have done this before, but you must be 21. If it comes to nothing, we delete your application after 90 days. If it feels right, the form for Munich is here, confidential and at no cost to you.

Munich · 13 · Good to know

Which city offices will you visit in Munich before your first date?

In Munich the two required steps are handled by two different city departments, in a fixed order, first a counselling session at the Health Department and then registration at the Kreisverwaltungsreferat, the city's public order office. Both need an appointment and often cannot be done on the same day, so it is worth booking early. You can ask for an interpreter when you book, the health department has information sheets in many languages, and both certificates can also be issued under a stage name.

Munich also has several restricted zones, including the city centre, and the regulation lists the streets and squares one by one. We talk through what that means for your evenings before your first date, and the city's page on restricted zones has an overview map.

The city lists Mimikry and JADWIGA on its own website, and a conversation there is worthwhile before you choose any agency, whether that is us or someone else.

General information, not legal advice. Binding answers come from the authority and a local advice centre.